May 21, 2008
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I used to live in Panama.
Yes, the country in Central America.
We lived in Panama City, on the Pacific side of the isthmus.My Dad did business in the Canal so we moved there in the early 80's.
I've never forgotten my wonderful memories and experiences as a kid.
We grew up in paradise and when my parents decided to come back to the States,
we moved back to LA.
It was bittersweet only because I love LA but loved Panama almost as much and
I knew I'd miss living in such a beautiful country.A couple years back, I made this montage for a simple class project in Photo class.
I miss my childhood.
Can you blame me for missing paradise???...
In Panama, I had a friend named Heidi.
She was my BFF.When we moved back to LA, I lost contact with her.
I don't know if I knew as a kid that I needed to get her contact info... I'm sure I did.
I think I had her address written down my diary but through all the moving and growing up, I lost it.
In my young mind, I prolly figured that I'd go back there one day anyway and find her right where I left her.
Haha.For the last 20+ years, I've been thinking about Heidi from time to time.
I always wondered if she stayed in Panama, if she got married, if she had kids, etc.
I figured she had moved bc her dad was an attorney in Panama as well as the States......
Last night, I was studying 'til the wee hours of the morning and I needed a break so,
went on Facebook and found my alma mater - Diablo Elementary's Alum Group.I joined and found a couple of people who had listed the names of the teachers that they had from K-6.
Whoa, teacher's names from the past.
It was so cool.Through the group, I found a kid - an old schoolmate named Quint that went onto Balboa High school
(the American high school in Panama) and looked through his network.
My intent was to find Heidi.
No such luck.
I looked for her sister Michelle... hoping that MAYBE, she went to Balboa or knew Quint.
Nope, didn't find her either.Since my curiosity was peaked, I decided to look through every Panamenian network there was and
it seemed like everyone who was there, back in the 80's especially,
had remained friends and kept in touch.
Amazing.But to my disappointment, I didn't find Heidi nor Michelle in the 4 networks I scoured one by one.
It was 4:30 in the morning by this time and I almost gave up.
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I found Michelle!!!I had forgotten what Heidi and Michelle's last name was (I know, how embarrassing) but I remembered it started with the letter "A".
I hadn't thought about it in almost a quarter of a century.
Aguila? Acosta...? then it hit me.Michelle ARIAS.
There she was.
Her profile picture was tiny and she looked 20 years older (haha) but it was unmistakably HER!!!
And in her circle of friends, there was Heidi Arias.
I almost cried.O.M.G.
FOR REAL.I sent both Michelle and Heidi a message asking if she had a sister named Heidi/Michelle and crossed my fingers that either one would reply.
I needed confirmation before I got too excited.
Michelle replied back about an hour later and told me that indeed she did have a sister named Heidi AND that she remembered me!I'm still in disbelief.
This is surreal.After almost 24 years of wondering about them, I finally reconnected with Michelle, my BFF's little sister.
I still haven't heard back from Heidi - I hope she checks her FB soon.
It would be so facking incredible to reconnect with my long, lost friend from elementary school!!!Little did I know that the Internet (& Facebook of all sites) would reconnect me with my long ago past.
Only a few degrees of separation...
I still cannot believe I found them.WHAT A TRIP.

Anyone else have any crazy stories about the wonders of the Internet?
Do share!

Comments (18)
woah~ i've reconnected with people via facebook but nothing as crazy as your story. then again, i've never lived out of the country before so everyone in my past is within 30 miles of where i live now. haha~ how exciting. the wonders of facebook!! it still surprises me to this day. yay for finding your long lost friend!
thats a nice story. ive had a similar experience with friendster. which is why im on it all the time. im glad you found your old friends. such a refreshing feeling, isnt it?
Me and Kazu T were boys from 2nd to 8th grade.. I saw him once or twice in college but then I found him about 10 years after 8th grade on good ole friendster... Since then, we keep up regularly....
that's why the internet is so cool but dangerous at the same time
Well, I met my wife on Asian Avenue; I sent her a note, and the rest was history. God bless the internet!
1 of my best friends from grade school contacted me on facebook too... it was trippy like u described it.
my BFF from jr hs contacted me from hong kong, after 20+ yrs. holly shiz i'm old
oh first of all, you are so cool you lived in panama. secondly i am sooo happy you found michelle!
yea!!! who are you on facebook? i am angela im. find me please!
it's fun that people have found me from when i lived in nashville on facebook! facebook's great that way. i'm sad i still haven't found 1 friend i was looking for on facebook. one day, hopefully i will. ryc, ewha's great and i went to the graduate school for int'l studies. i loved being at ewha and so did my hubby. when i had classes, he got to just stare at all the gorgeous ladies at ewha! haha
i miss living here in seoul and i'm pleased that this time, hubby's thinking that he would like to live here too! yea! who knows? maybe i'll get to move back to seoul again someday...i hope so!
That's so cool Chris!!!
that is sooo awesome!!!! wow~!
yea, i had a similiar situation. i grew up in beverly hills, lived there practically my whoel life and moved to korea when i was 13. my 1st grade crush, c, an italian//irish guy was my first love. he moved t laguna beach in the 3rd grade. i was devastated, and lost touch. keep in mind this is the late 80s. fast fwd 12 yrs later. like u, id think bout him time to time, and everytime i played MASH with my friends id put his name down and i'd hope to find him , my long lost love.. then i go to uci, and had to go jangtuh in LA one time and got to know other ksa members. i quickly became friends with csufullerton ppl and hung out with a few ppl. i ended up dating one of them, and one day, i happen to scroll down his fone when i saw the name c. the last name was f#$@#%@#%#@. it was a unique last name, notlike o'farrell or mcallister, etc... i started to play 20?s reealized it WAS the C, but trippy because i was dating this korean fool. i guess my ex and c were hs buddies.. my ex, the ksa guy is also from laguna beach. trippy huh? i called him, and all the stuff ... sad thing is, as soon as reunited, i lost my cell fone and my ex and i broke up so i cant have a way to find out his contact again but i kno well meet again...
Wow! My sister looked up her best friend from kindergarten and she didn't recognize her... but then she was looking through pictures and she recognized her parents.
dang... that was some oprah type of shiet!!
heeeeeeeeeeey... $70 and you get 450-480mi??? dang, maybe i should be a bolbo!!
glad ur keeeping xanga fresh
thats soooooo crazy...i didn't know you were from panama....i'm from paraguay.....its funny that you say that b/c i also had 2 bff and wonder from time to time.....
(btw, this is sue)
Hi Girl, it's been so long since ive seen you! how have you been?... i remember you blogged about a camera you got for your bday and i remember you posted some pics and thought the pics came out really well. what camera was it and do you love it? I want to purchase a good quality camera where i can take an array of pics of my lito one...any suggestions?
@e1977 - i got the canon rebel xti for my bday and i LOVE it. easy to use, takes great pictures and the new lenses i bought make it that much more enjoyable.
it's kinda bulky as all SLRs are but nevertheless, the picture difference from a point-and-shoot is incomparable. some of my friends prefer nikon to canons but generally speaking, it really just depends on your preference. unless you're a pro, either makes are excellent for the amatuer photographers. hope that helps!
give e and big hug and a kiss for me!
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